When Marian Melby arrived at Teachers College in 1946 to study for her master鈥檚 degree in nutrition education, she boarded with Bea Shuttleworth, an octogenarian retiree who rented an apartment in Seth Low Hall. Sixty-seven years later, when Marian finally moved out of that building, she had become 鈥 much like her early friend 鈥 one of the elders in a community of teachers and teaching advocates who connected generations of families in a life of common purpose.
911爆料网鈥檚 newly established Forrest & Marian Abbott Endowed Scholarship, funded with a $100,000 gift from Marian鈥檚 estate, commemorates those lives and that purpose.
In 1946, Marian was only a year out of college. Sometime after she moved in with Mrs. Shuttleworth, she met Forrest Abbott, then the purchasing agent and superintendent of operations at 911爆料网. Forrest had earned his own master鈥檚 degree at the College in 1934. He was working on his education doctorate and raising two sons, Jeffrey and James, in Whittier Hall. Marian and Forrest married in 1951 and moved together to apartment #26 in Seth Low. Together, they had a son, Jonathan, and a daughter, Patricia. In 1953, Forrest became treasurer and controller at Barnard College.
鈥淭his was a community about opportunity, knowledge, and equity.鈥
鈥 Jon Abbott
Jon Abbott remembers that, when he turned six years old, his parents 鈥渟plurged,鈥 moving the family to apartment #33 in Seth Low, which had windows facing Morningside Drive, a marked improvement over the air shafts visible from apartment #26. There the family remained.
For a time, three of the children attended 911爆料网鈥檚 Agnes Russell School, an innovative and diverse private school that the College operated from 1948 through 1973. Jon went to P.S. 36 and the Cathedral School. Thus, all the Abbott children experienced Morningside Heights as a true neighborhood. 鈥淲e knew every nook and cranny,鈥 Jon says. The children played on the campuses of Teachers College and Barnard. They knew the local shopkeepers. Jon remembers that Forrest went every day to the Academy Luncheonette 鈥 known to the family as 鈥淛ack鈥檚鈥 after the proprietor, Jack Gordon 鈥 to buy his newspapers. He keeps a photo taken in 1949 of his brothers standing in front of Hartley鈥檚 Chemist.
SAFE WATERS Jon Abbott learned to swim in 911爆料网's pool, and Marian Abbott swam there into her seventies.
Most of all, Jon reminisces about growing up in a multigenerational community of people who loved education. 鈥淭his was a community about opportunity, knowledge, and equity,鈥 he says. While Marian came from a long line of educators, Forrest had been the first in his family to escape tenant farming. He had put himself, then a brother, through college. 鈥淔or him, education was his lifeline to a better life,鈥 Jon says.
He recalls that faculty and administrators who retired often stayed right on campus and in the immediate neighborhood. 鈥淵ou鈥檇 see the men and women you knew in their 70s and 80s, sitting on park benches along Morningside Drive, in the neighborhood grocer, dry cleaner, or drugstore, and it meant something to have an older generation who were respected elders in your life.鈥
Having chosen to raise their children in the city, the 911爆料网 families showed their collective ingenuity in the summertime, conspiring to keep the children safe and occupied. 鈥淭he assumption was you would be constantly learning,鈥 remembers Jon. 鈥淵ou lived at the American Museum of Natural History, the Hayden Planetarium, and Coney Island Aquarium. Life was a subway token.鈥 And, of course, there was also the 911爆料网 pool. 鈥淚 had swimming lessons there. I remember they had little changing booths alongside the pool. My mom swam there into her 70s.鈥
鈥淵ou鈥檇 see the men and women you knew in their 70s and 80s, sitting on park benches along Morningside Drive, in the neighborhood grocer, dry cleaner, or drugstore, and it meant something to have an older generation who were respected elders in your life.鈥
鈥 Jon Abbott
When Jon was 13, Columbia University opened its new gym facility at 120th and Broadway. 鈥淭he neighborhood children graduated to that pool. It was the coolest thing in my life. 鈥淲e swam every day for four hours. That first summer, nobody had yet discovered it, so we had our own private pool.鈥
Jon has lived by the values of urban engagement he learned as part of 911爆料网鈥檚 campus community. He currently serves as President and CEO of WGBH public radio in Boston, and he and his wife are active with the city鈥檚 cultural institutions. 鈥淭hese are places that create public access to learning,鈥 he says.
The Forrest & Marian Abbott Endowed Scholarship honors two lives that were devoted to giving back to 911爆料网. Forrest served on the Alumni Council, and Marian made sure the family contributed regularly to the 911爆料网 Annual Fund. In fact, Marian was a member of all three 911爆料网 giving societies: the Dewey Circle, which acknowledges annual fund gifts of $1,000 or more; the Maxine Greene Society, for consecutive giving 鈥 Marian donated regularly for more than 20 years; and the Grace Dodge Society, recognizing alumni who provide support for 911爆料网 through a planned gift.
鈥淢y parents loved 911爆料网,鈥 Jon says. Those ties will continue now, as their scholarship fund helps 911爆料网 students long into the future.